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Reading back my previous post..wow..it looks like i have been unhappy..haha..yeah..of course..adjusting with a person is not easy..i actually started writing this blog when i started dating my husband..he said that it is a good way to exercise the brain..oh well i like writing this blog because it is sort of a storage for memories..

It has been 1month+ since me & hubby got married..i am blessed to have him as my husband..i know his flaws, he knows my flaws..thank God we always find ways to tolerate each other..given that we know each other in such short time! less than 2 months we agreed to get engaged..such a huge risk to take..but of course we make some research on each other..people don't get married to each other just like that! 

Hmm..things that i love most when i am with him is how he can be so gentle when i am mad..he calms me down..that is one of his characteristic that i appreciate most..hehe..i am putting this in the blog so that i will always be reminded of the reason that i love him so much..appreciate your husband!

I attended a talk by Prof Dr Muhaya last Friday..she said, some of the reasons why there will be many women in hell is that the wife does not obey his husband's command & treat her husband with no gratitude..I pray to God hoping that i will always be a good wife..i am trying to be one & i want to be one...it is not an easy task..it needs lots of patience, perseverance, wittiness, physical & mental strength..i am not perfect but am trying to be the best i can be..InsyaAllah, with God's will, i could achieve my goal of being a good wife..& i am praying that i will be a good servant of Allah too..i am not pious..i have lots of things to improve..

Seems like there are so many things i need to do..but i can't seem to find some time for it..or maybe i am a little lazy..

I need to:
-work out - strength, flexibility..muscle stop growing at the age of 30..i better start now..or i will have lots of problem later
- increase my knowledge - work-related: drugs, administration, management; things that goes/happen around me; 
-increase my skill: cooking - i still haven't managed to cook fast, haven't try baking; massaging - massage myself & husband
-read read read..

Will try to work these out..find time/ways to do all these..
I can do it! Yeah!

POST WEDDING

It has been quite a while since i write anything here..been busy with the wedding ceremony & moving in to new house..life has been quite hectic..

Being a wife is not easy..i know being a husband is not easy either..both have to work out on the differences we have..sometimes there is arguments & sour faces..but it is not all that..it is a nice feeling being able to wake up to someone you love..having that person by your side..it is serene..

..Feeling blessed..